Tips for a Manly Vacation

It is the plan of every group of friends, girl or boy, married or single, and at least once dreamed of going on a girls' or boys' vacation! In this article, of course, we will talk about the most difficult one: going on vacation with a guy!

No one can deny that the hardest part of going on a trip with your buddies is getting permission from your girlfriend or spouse! Before the vacation, we think you need tips for this because a tough process and a challenging battle await you.

First and foremost, here's the most important rule: You must go on a vacation with your girlfriend or spouse first. It should be a very romantic and impressive trip. For instance, you could make a reservation at a place she has wanted to go for a long time. Also, the duration of your vacation should be at least a day longer than the one with your friends. After organizing all this, the message is clear: Of course, I prioritize you over my friends, my love!

There are only a few months left until summer, which may seem short to some but is a long time for us. First, you need to win over your sweetheart and during this period, you must not give her any reason to complain. You shouldn't be the one starting or causing conflicts. You must be the forgiving, yielding, and accepting one in any situation. When it's time for your vacation, there shouldn't be any reason for your girlfriend to say "stop" when she looks back. Meanwhile, dream about the movie-like vacation you'll have with your male friends.

When you share the vacation idea with your loved one, don't appear too eager. Act as if it was mentioned in passing and you haven't given it much importance. Pretend to be nonchalant, like, "They threw out a vacation plan, but let's see." Just throw the bait and wait for it to be taken! Make it seem like you're not very interested. Then, bring up the vacation idea periodically, choosing the best times to do so. Let it sit in her mind and open new windows of thought for her.

In the following period, proceed with confident steps without losing hope. Do not let any argument extend to your vacation! You shouldn't be the hero of a cleverly planned and managed argument by your girlfriend that ends up impacting your vacation. Remember, you are the one who yields!

Give your girlfriend information about the group you're going on vacation with. You know very well that if there's a single or flirty friend in your group, your chances are not very high. So, be very careful when selecting your friends and explaining the group to your girlfriend, and use appropriate words. Gain her trust about the vacation and create an environment where she can trust your friends.

Throughout this patiently executed process, never lose hope no matter what happens. As the saying goes, “It was hope that kept a person alive!”